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Fathers rights
Posted on: Thu, 04/03/2008 - 15:08
Fathers rights
I think that fathers who wish to be in their childrens lives, and would do and is doing everything they can to be there, should have some rights against the mothers who deniy them this right. If there is no conern or problem with the father then why should they be deniyed access to their children!!!!



hi. i was quite interested to read this topic especially as i have been through something very similar. when me and my ex split up my ex had the children against my wishes. i had no idea where he was as he moved house and his parents apparently did not know where he was either. my solicter even had problems tracing him. eventually he made contact with me but was still being funny about letting me have the children. (he was after a council house). i only saw the children once a week but did not keep them as i didnt want to disrupt them furthur by messing around with them from piller to post. i wanted it to be done properly. i provided clothes and bedding which i gave to my ex and paid for school trips. eventually we came to an agreement where we share them. i now have the children 3 days a week, their dad has them twice a week and their grandparents have them twice a week. the children are happy with this as they see us all including my exs other new children but hes taken me to the csa on a number of occassions. ive fought and fought and eventually someone listened to my case but i still have to pay a back bill of arrears which i got whilst contesting the fact that he was able to do this to me in the first place. he made me suffer by not allowing me the contact and then by doing that with the csa and i have always wanted my children and supported them best i can. even though i actually have my children more than my ex i cant claim benefits because he gets them (child benefit)i feel for any parent that has been made to suffer where there children are concerned. children should not be weapons against each other. they are supposed to be cared for, loved, protected and you should enjoy the time spent with them.