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Why is it all your polls etc are aimed at just women? As you say, 50% who buy your magazine are men. I only buy it for the puzzles, but I do like to enter the polls and some of the discussions. Your latest Poll is: "If you partner was rubbish in bed would you tell HIM", why not HER? Remember, a lot of women are not as good as they think. This goes for men also :-) Getting back to the Poll, yes I think he, or she, should discuss it with their partners. Isn't that part of what marriage is all about, being able to talk about anything, being honest with each other.

married or not you should be able to tell your partner what you like and dont like in bed as he should be able to tell you also. Everyone starts off crap in bed and they learn from experience whether that be different partners or one long time partner, the more you share, talk and laugh together the more confident you should be to explore with that partner until you are both great in bed. What one partner finds great another may think is not good it depends on the chemistry of the couple and how they fit together , being open , honest and have a laugh is the key i think and trust is a big issue too.

YOU GO AHEAD AND TELL YOUR WIFE SHE IS BAD IN BED, THATS SUICIDE...OR AT THE VERY LEAST THE LAST TIME YOUR GOING TO GET ANY AT ALL!

You dont just tell your wife she is crap in bed or your right you wont be getting any, you will be on the sofa. You tell her what you like and what she is doing right not what she is doing wrong. Teach her what you like, if its that bad maybe you shouldnt be there at all!!