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Tue, 30/06/2009 - 19:47
im 26 wiv 2 young kids and a partner, but the thing is Ive hardly got any mates and don't get out much plus i lack confidence to me im fat and need to loose weight the weight i have lost i need to tone up but i find that quite hard i use to the gym but packed it in as i hated going on my own everything that iv tried don't seem to b working i weight everything that i eat i even write everything down to but its really getting to me now.. any one out there wiv any advice at all ppplllzzzz?
Tue, 30/06/2009 - 20:40
#1
Reply to donna 10
Hi, maybe you could meet up with another young mum, does your children go to nursery or school get chatting with some mums you might have more in common than you think. hays
Thu, 02/07/2009 - 12:35
#2
Although this is not easy as
Although this is not easy as many other mum's judge us because we are big. My son is in p5 and since p1 and still everyone is clicky and doesnt talk to me. I have tried and tried bit no more!!!!!!!!. I have birthday and halloween partys in my house every year and all the class mates come. The mum's come in and make small talk about my nice house and the next day it's back to they same no one talk's to me. I have never been for a cuppa with any mums so I know it is not easy as I have tried for five years. People judge us because we are big everyone does men,other mum's, people that wont employ us, and we get growled at just because we want the bus home " we should be walking!". I get judged everyday even though i go to the gym twice a week and have done for a year. I do fund raising every year for cash for kids and children in need. I have gained four highers and am working hard to better my future. My boys are slim , well mannered, happy, kind and lovley boys. Where have I went wrong that I dont have any friends? Why do so many people judge big people ?
Tue, 28/07/2009 - 19:03
#3
mad
how can ppl be so sad i wud neva judge ppl cuz weight etc i was size 10 n always got bk to it after me kids but me fourth one who is 19m old iv not managed lose it til last few months i been walkin n eatin as much salad as poss n tryna to stop munchin on rubbish i lost a stone then last few weeks put on few pound but lost it again this week , im to shy to go gym etc also im alone in dudley have noone to have me kids i neva get to go out alone im tryin to move back to by me family so i can hopefully have a life n meet up with sum old school friends , i feel so alone here its rare ppl at school talk to me aswell ur not alone i have met up wiv sum mums of baby group but havent for ages , i catch buses to even to asda but only cuz there a hill to go up to get there n im out breath by time i get up it ,but i walk to park n school n sumtimes to nearest shops , any u fancy chatin me email is xkristyx1980x@hotmail.com
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