unbelievable!

i no that shocked me. what makes me laugh is that the poll at the moment is are women who dont want children odd and 85percent of people have selected no that becuase we all have children and no how friggin hard it is lol

'Bubbles' to the judgemental 14% who think childless women who have either made a conscious decision not to raise kids they feel they cannot cope with or women who through no fault of their own say they do not want kids (because it is better than banging ones head against a brick wall if unreliable men, circumstances or health dictates that you cannot have a family)! I trust they weren't some of the frights who said they preferred their hubbys to their children! Why not have a poll saying 'Are women odd who have children and then go round roaring at them and not raising them properly?' And I dont just mean the Karen Matthews or Baby P 'mums' of this world - I mean you lot in Asda, Saisnburys etc who act as if the world should just put up with your spoiled brats running riot because you cant cope with them but thought you were good knocking them all out. Come to think of it no wonder some women dont want kids - you've probably put them off!

i dont understand what you trying to say? most parents treat thier children well . its just the idiot and messed up people that raise there kids and ruin thier lives. i go out with my children and i hear people tutting at them just for laughing to loud or having fun running on the beach. sometimes it the posh stuck up people that cant stand children running around and having fun. i can understand why some women dont want children becuase children do take over your lives but i hae 2 children and love them to bits i woudl never hit them. i just think u have been unlucky and see bad parents in shops. we not all that bad

i dont understand what you trying to say? most parents treat thier children well . its just the idiot and messed up people that raise there kids and ruin thier lives. i go out with my children and i hear people tutting at them just for laughing to loud or having fun running on the beach. sometimes it the posh stuck up people that cant stand children running around and having fun. i can understand why some women dont want children becuase children do take over your lives but i hae 2 children and love them to bits i woudl never hit them. i just think u have been unlucky and see bad parents in shops. we not all that bad

I also didnt get what you are on about. I go shopping in Asda and have done all my life. I have to take my sons with me during summer hols, Easter as I have to I do not have anyone to watch my children when I go shopping so they have to go with me. Yes my children are older now and they behave well, however there was a time when they were younger and they were fed up and did cry a lot. My younger son was very good at tantrums and would have them in Asda all the time. Does that mean I am a bad mother NO it didnt!! it just meant that he was tired, fed up, bored and wanted to go home. I felt exactly the same as him however my children have got to eat what do you want them to do? I am sure you would complain if we locked them in the house without anyone to watch them for a few hours or just didnt shop and then we would have social workers on our backs for not feeding our children. So tough if they annoy you go and shop somewhere else. However one thing I have got to agree with is why do mothere's let their daughters scream?? I am so lucky I have two sons so I have never gone through this shrilling right through you scream.

panda def got an issue with kids!!! dont let this person work with children at all!!!!!!

I think It's you who has a problem with judging people, why the hell would you associate asda and sainsbury's with naughty children, obviously you are stuck up. Kids are demanding, no gettin away from It, but is more important, and harder than any other job in the world. Just because kids misbehave (which is what kids are good at doing)doesn't make anyone a bad parent, they like to challenge you, thats just kids ! I think Its easy for you to look down at your nose at people in supermarkets whose kids are having a tantrums. Its terrible to say that these people put other people off having kids, thats just disgusting, theres people who don't want kids mainly because they do not want the responsibility.

Well, I have to say -shopping anywhere and having to put up with screaming kids is a nightmare and i really hate having to listen to them . I think there should be a child free shopping day and evening where we can go and shop in peace . No , i don''t have kids and never have wanted them -why should that make anyone odd - its not for everyone and people should respect that too ! My brother thinks the same too !

asda is usually open 24hours a day so go on a night when children are in bed no affence but you wernt born an adult! we have all been young and kids are kids. if not wear ear plugs if that doesnt work sop online instead